I have often said (with sermons, for example) that "people often hear what they want to hear". I started writing out my sermons for awhile, just to "prove" that I didn't say what people said I said! In my Reflection for Tuesday, a couple of people said I said I agreed with Brando's idea. I didn't. I said that we were "destined to transcend the basics" - whether men are "hard-wired" for wide-spread sex or not.